Saturday, January 23, 2010

Settling In

We have had so many people call and email wondering how we are doing since our arrival home with Anna. Thank you for all your messages of interest and concern.
To be honest we have been too busy and tired to think about updating the blog. If getting back to our jobs and all the demands with that was not enough, on top of that we have been busy with the team at Children's Hospital to prepare for Anna's surgery, helping Anna adjust to her new home, and helping Lily adjust to sharing her Mom and Dad and having a new classroom at school.

Anna is making great progress adjusting to a whole new world. Her nighttime routine (thanks to Pamela's dedication) has improved tremendously. It is still challenging getting her to sleep, but it is getting much better. She is eating well and enjoys her play time with Nana Barbara.

Lily is in a new classroom at school, having graduated from the toddler room into an early childhood class. The first couple of days she had trouble transitioning from Mom or Dad into the classroom, but the last few days she has bounced into the room, not even looking back to say a goodbye!

Lily has regressed a bit with her manners after the long trip to China. Sarah, our nanny, asked her one day last week what had happened to her manners. Lily explained, "I lost them in China."

Anna's surgery was originally scheduled for early February, which had us so excited. However, it has slipped into March due to one of the surgeons having a scheduling conflict. We are very disappointed, but have to remind ourselves how fortunate we are to have world-renowned surgeons working on Anna.

Barbara and Sarah have been a godsend, helping us with the girls every day. Barbara will be able to stay for another couple of months before moving into her own home, and Sarah will be here to help us through Anna's surgery and recuperation.

Now that things are settling down a bit, we will try and update the blog more often.



Making cookies with Nana Barbara









 

3 comments:

sue williams said...

Just happy to hear that you are all making progress, it is so hard to re-adjust to your new family those first few weeks. It will get so tremendously easier as time goes on. Happy also to hear that you have such loving help. Godsent indeed. I will be thinking of you each day, wishing you all well!

Anonymous said...

Glad things are "normalizing". You guys must be exhausted. I don't know how you do it. I'm exhausted just reading about it.
Hang in there. We'd love to come meet Anna and see Lily when things settle down a bit more.
Kris & Tim

Sam & Grace said...

Grace and I are very encouraged to read the update on Lily and Anna. We've been praying for you since being with you in China. We'll check in periodically to keep up with Lily and Anna's progress. Megan is doing well. The pediatric cardiologist did an ultrasound on her heart and said it looks like the surgery done by the Chinese surgeons was indeed successful. Megan still doesn't speak much, but we've discovered that she actually understands a lot of Mandarin and can follow basic instructions pretty well!