Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Anna is Ours

Five months ago today we asked the China Civil Adoption Affairs if we could adopt Chu Fang Ran. Through the support of the Chinese Government, the Xuzhou Social Welfare Institute, the United States Citizen and Immigration Services, The National Visa Center, our wonderful China Adoption Coordinator, our home study Social Worker and the other Xuzhou families; Anna Lin officially became our daughter today!  Oh, and we received TA on Christmas Day.It was waiting for us at the Nanjing office yesterday. (No comment J) The mountain of paperwork, numerous signatures and the fingerprints of John, Anna and myself solidifies that Anna Lin is our daughter forever.

After the ceremony in the Civil Affairs office, we spent some time at the Nanjing orphanage with the other family in our group.  We then celebrated with lunch at Burger King. For all of you that told us Anna is a tiny little thing…we invite you carry her for awhile.  She is a solid girl!  Most of the clothes I brought her are too small and her feet are very wide so the shoes don't fit either. And this girl can eat! At breakfast she ate 6 dumplings, 2 fried eggs, 4 pieces of toast, a bowl of noodles, 3 yogurts and 2 glasses of orange juice. Our guide took me to the department store to buy her some clothes and a stroller. Anna's condition makes it very uncomfortable for her to walk and it hurts when we hold her. She likes riding in the stroller…I'm convinced she thinks she's VIP being pushed around in her special car.

The smile has not left her face although we have had a few testy moments with her. She's getting to know Lily and they are working through the process of living together as sisters. She's also learning to bond with us.  Last night I crawled in bed with her to give her a hug. We spent several minutes in silence just looking into each other's eyes. Anna pushed back the covers and unzipped her PJ's and took them off.  She then reached for my top and had me remove it. She wanted to hug skin to skin. We lay in each other's arms for awhile and she slowly drifted off to sleep.  She looked so at peace with what is going on in her life. We are just amazed at how quickly she is fitting into our family.


9 comments:

Jenny said...

Wow! What a beautiful transition for all of you. I love the matching outfits...and that Miss Anna is such a good eater. Hugs to you all!!

-Jenny (another Xuzhou Mom)

Bug's Mom said...

Congratulations...what a great post to find this morning! Seeing Lily and Anna together just melts the heart. What a beautiful family! :-)

Love,
The Churches

Carey and Norman said...

So wonderful to hear how well Anna is transitioning. I loved how she wanted to be so close to you and experience skin on skin contact. The Lord has truly worked a miracle in your adoption! It gives me chills!!

Thinking of you and wishing for a close bond to form b/w Lily and Anna. Our adopted daughter is 8 months older than our son, so I understand how it can be those first few days when you have children similar in age!! Just give it time and they'll be inseparable!

Sharing Life and Love said...

It still floors me---Five Months---Unbelievable! So happy to hear about the bonding---so natural... Really cannot wait for you to get home, though...so Anna can be more comfortable.

Thanks for sharing.
:-)

sue williams said...

You are all awesome! So happy that you are together, Anna could not be in better arms. I love that she wanted to be so close to you, isn't it just the most amazing thing how accepting and loving these little children are. I hope your day is filled with new wonder and fun, bless you all.

sue

sarahthefantastic said...

It's all so amazing! I second Sue's comment that she could not be in better arms. You have worked so hard to get her there quickly and how satisfying to have achieved that.
That's funny that she eats so much! Sorry the lovely clothes you had are too small, but now you know why!
How lovely that she is letting you get so close already. What a wonderful story. xoxo Sarah

Lisa & Mark said...

Congratulations! I'm so happy that you are there with Anna. Sounds like the transition is going well. I am so thankful for everyone at the Xuzhou SWI who also prepared our April so well! We show April pictures of Anna all the time and we can't wait for the girls to see each other again soon!

Jen said...

I just LOVE how each and every one of you are beaming in that picture! When things are meant to be then mountains are moved to make it happen... you are living proof of that!

I hope that things continue to get better and better every day!

Sheri_n_Ben said...

Congratulations!!! I'm so happy to see that things are going so wonderfully!! It's great that she was old enough to to know what was going on in her little world.
She eats like our Olivia!! She would eat a ton too if I let her!

So happy for you all!
Hugs,
Sheri (Leilah Di and Olivia Xia's Mommy...and Mom to many more!)